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Addressing Your Children’s Challenging Behaviors

Many parents of young children face behavioral concerns like children not listening, throwing tantrums, biting and more.

Published

2 years ago

March 18, 2023

Rebecca Washington

(Family Features) Many parents of young children face behavioral concerns like children not listening, throwing tantrums, biting and more. While every situation is unique, parents can rest assured they aren’t alone and these behaviors aren’t atypical.

“As young children grow and develop, behavioral challenges are to be expected,” said Dr. Lauren Starnes, senior vice president and chief academic officer, The Goddard School. “That said, just because these behaviors are often normal doesn’t mean they are easy for the parents addressing them or the young children experiencing them.”

While eliminating undesired behaviors like defiance, tantrums and biting is likely unrealistic, it’s not a lost cause for parents. Understanding why certain behaviors occur and the appropriate techniques to address them can help parents mitigate their impact and lessen their frequency, duration and severity.

Starnes recommends these ways to understand and address challenging behaviors in young children.

Biting
Infants often bite when teething. Young toddlers bite out of excitement, exploration or in response to inconsistencies in their environment. Older toddlers and 2-year-olds frequently bite as a communication method, such as when they fail to have the language to communicate frustration.

For children who are 3 years of age or older, biting is typically an aggressive behavior. Understanding the root cause can help tailor the response more appropriately to curb the behavior. For example, giving infants various textured teething toys can lessen the likelihood they will bite. For 2-year-olds, modeling how to use words and phasing out oral soothing items like pacifiers can also reduce the likelihood of biting.

Defiance
Raising young children means preparing to hear them say, “No.” One of the primary developmental milestones of early childhood is emerging independence. The overt exertion of independence tends to peak at or around age 2 and can continue at varying degrees of intensity, depending in part upon the personality of the child.

One important factor about defiant behavior is that while it is independence exertion, it is also attention-seeking. Behavior is communication and some defiant actions may simply be a means of obtaining attention and situational control. By giving children more independence – for example, asking “Can you please put your shoes on for me?” or “Can you pick which one of these dresses you want to wear today?” – you may be able to help them become compliant.

Logical consequences can also help. For example, if children refuse to sit in their chair to eat, have them stand for dinner or remove their snack until they sit.

Tantrums
The American Academy of Pediatrics defines tantrums as a behavioral response by young children who are learning to be independent and desire to make choices yet lack the coping and self-regulation skills to handle frustration. Whether a tantrum is triggered by communication gaps, frustration or a reinforced behavior to control a situation, there are specific techniques that can be used to deescalate the behavior and help children regain emotional composure.

Your reaction to a tantrum is a direct predictor of its intensity and longevity. Taking an opposite position to children in terms of volume, speed of movement and pace of speech can be enough to counterbalance the tantrum.

Another effective technique to curb a tantrum is sportscasting. Using a soft tone of voice, sportscasting is the verbal, non-biased account of what is happening in the moment retold in third-person as though telling a story or broadcasting a sport. While this may feel awkward at first, it often catches children’s attention and deescalates their reaction. For example, “Lou wanted more gummy bears. Mom said no. Lou is yelling and crying.”

There is no silver bullet to stop biting, defiance and tantrums. These behaviors, for better or worse, are expected parts of early childhood. However, by gaining an understanding of their root causes and employing appropriate techniques to address these behaviors, parents can mitigate their impact while helping children develop and grow socially and emotionally.

For more actionable parenting insights, guidance and resources – including a webinar with Starnes providing additional tips for behavioral guidance – visit GoddardSchool.com.

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The Goddard School

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Does magic really exist? The Conversation’s Curious Kids podcast

Julia, a curious seven-year-old, wonders if scientific explanations will diminish the magic of phenomena like rainbows and Northern Lights, explored in The Conversation’s Curious Kids podcast.

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2 weeks ago

September 20, 2024

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Eloise Stevens, The Conversation

Seven-year-old Julia in London thinks that rainbows and the Northern Lights are magical. But if a scientist tells her how they work, will she still believe they are? Join us to find out on The Conversation’s Curious Kids podcast!

Featuring Partha Chowdhury, professor of physics at UMass Lowell in the US.

This is the last episode in the first season of The Conversation’s Curious Kids podcast, published in partnership with FunKids, the UK’s children’s radio station. It’s hosted and produced by Eloise. The executive producer is Gemma Ware.

Email your question to curiouskids@theconversation.com or record it and send your question to us directly at funkidslive.com/curious.

And explore more articles from our Curious Kids series on The Conversation.

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Partha Chowdhury does not work for, consult, own shares in or receive funding from any company or organisation that would benefit from this article, and has disclosed no relevant affiliations beyond their academic appointment.

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Smooth Transition: 3 tips to prepare for the new school year

Published

4 weeks ago

September 6, 2024

Daily News Staff

(Family Features) Whether your child is starting school for the first time or simply returning at a new grade level, preparations for the school year can feel overwhelming for both students and parents alike.

To help make the back-to-school transition as seamless as possible, consider taking these steps ahead of the academic term.

Set Goals for the School Year
As the new school year approaches, talk with your student about what he or she wants to achieve academically, socially and personally. Whether it’s getting better grades, making new friends or getting involved in extracurricular activities, having clear goals can help your child stay focused and make the most of the school year. To stay organized and track progress along the way, consider creating a list of short-term goals that contribute to his or her long-term objectives.

Practice Healthy Habits
Establishing a routine that incorporates sleep, exercise, self-care and a healthy diet can help set your child on a path toward success. Start by setting consistent sleep and wake times to ensure your student is well-rested and ready to focus during the day. Aim for at least 7-9 hours of sleep each night to support overall well-being.

In addition to sleep, ensure a balanced diet and regular exercise are priorities. Fueling your child’s body with nutritious foods can help boost energy levels and concentration. Also encourage physical activity through sports, exercise classes or going for walks. Don’t forget to make sure your student leaves time for relaxation and self-care. Whether it’s reading a book, practicing a hobby or spending time with friends and family, engaging in enjoyable activities can help recharge the mind and reduce stress.

Organize Schedules and Supplies
Organization is key to a successful school year. Using a planner or calendar to track assignment due dates, exams and extracurriculars can help your student effectively manage his or her time. In addition to organizing schedules, gather the necessary supplies. Make a list of the items he or she will need for each class, such as notebooks, pens, a calculator, textbooks and more. Check if any supplies from the previous year can be reused or if purchasing new ones is necessary.

Find more tips to make the school year a successful one at eLivingtoday.com.

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Safe, Clean Transportation to School: 4 benefits of propane school buses

Published

1 month ago

September 3, 2024

Daily News Staff

(Family Features) Protecting students as they travel to and from school takes many forms. Parents and educators alike teach kids to be mindful of traffic and responsible while riding and waiting at the bus stop. Drivers are trained to avoid accidents to safeguard the children in their care. Another way to protect kids traveling to and from school involves the mode of transportation they use.

According to the National Transportation Safety Board, 25 million children across the country ride to school every day in nearly 500,000 school buses. Yet the way kids ride to school today is very much the way children rode to school 25 years ago, in an aging diesel school bus. These buses are not only expensive to operate, they also pose potential harm to children’s health, the community and the environment.

While there are diverse energy options that can achieve cleaner, healthier school transportation, propane is an environmentally friendly and affordable energy source.

“With significant investments being made to clean up the nation’s school bus fleet, such as the Environmental Protection Agency’s Clean School Bus Program, there’s never been a better time to prioritize clean transportation,” said Tucker Perkins, president and CEO for the Propane Education & Research Council. “Affordable and available solutions, like propane, should be implemented immediately to move further down the path to zero emissions and decarbonize our nation’s school bus fleets.”

At BetterOurBuses.com you can learn how to open dialogue with your school district about clean transportation by sharing the benefits of propane school buses, including:

Student Health

Propane buses are better for children’s health compared to diesel buses because they reduce harmful pollutants. The cloud of black smoke that comes from the tailpipe of a diesel bus contains harmful emissions like nitrogen oxide and particulate matter. Propane buses eliminate that issue, reducing harmful nitrogen oxide emissions by up to 96% compared to diesel and emitting near-zero particulate matter emissions.

Beyond the implications for asthma, bronchitis and other respiratory problems, propane school buses provide a quieter ride than diesel buses, which means those driving children to school are better equipped to hear potential concerns and protect riders’ safety.

The Environment

Propane reduces harmful emissions that impact student health, the environment and air quality in the community. It is a low-carbon energy source that can accelerate decarbonization of the nation’s school bus fleet. It is also non-toxic to groundwater and soil. Both propane and electric vehicles can reduce emissions compared to diesel, but propane does it at a fraction of the cost. School districts can buy three propane buses for the cost of one electric bus, allowing them to retire aging diesel buses three times faster by choosing propane.

Cost Savings

Propane school buses are an affordable option for school districts. The operating cost of propane school buses are half the cost of diesel, allowing school districts to put more money back into the classroom. If all the diesel buses in the U.S. were converted to operate on propane, enough money could be saved to hire 23,000 teachers.

Reliability

Propane has a range of 400 miles, which makes it a good choice for vehicles like school buses, which need to travel long distances without stopping to recharge or refuel, providing a reliable ride for students. Propane school buses also have the power and performance to travel in all kinds of weather and across all types of terrain while diesel and electric buses can be impacted by freezing weather.

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Propane Education & Research Council