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The ‘choking game’ and other challenges amplified by social media can come with deadly consequences
Teenagers are increasingly engaging in dangerous games amplified by social media, like the Choking Game and Skullbreaker Challenge, which can have deadly consequences. Parental involvement and healthy risk-taking are essential for prevention and guidance.
Steven Wolterning, Texas A&M University and Paige Williams, Texas A&M University
The “choking game” has potentially deadly consequences, as players are challenged to temporarily strangle themselves by restricting oxygen to the brain. It sounds terrifying, but rough estimates suggest that about 10% of U.S. teenagers may have played this type of game at least once.
There’s more, unfortunately: The Skullbreaker Challenge, the Tide Pod Challenge and Car Surfing are but a few of the deadly games popularized through social media, particularly on Snapchat, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and X – formerly Twitter. Many of these games go back more than a generation, and some are resurging.
The consequences of these so-called games can be deadly. Skullbreaker Challenge, for example, involves two people kicking the legs out from under a third person, causing them to fall and potentially suffer lasting injuries. Swallowing detergent pods can result in choking and serious illness. A fall from car surfing can lead to severe head trauma.
Coming up with an exact number of adolescent deaths from these activities is difficult. Data is lacking, partly because public health databases do not track these activities well – some deaths may be misclassified as suicides – and partly because much of the existing research is dated.
A 2008 report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found that 82 U.S. children over a 12-year period died after playing the Choking Game. About 87% of the participants were male, most were alone, and their average age was just over 13. Obviously, new, updated research is needed to determine the severity of the problem.
A 2008 report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found that 82 U.S. children over a 12-year period died after playing the Choking Game. About 87% of the participants were male, most were alone, and their average age was just over 13. Obviously, new, updated research is needed to determine the severity of the problem.
Peer pressure and the developing brain
We are a professor of educational neuroscience and a Ph.D. student in educational psychology. Both of us study how children regulate their behaviors and emotions, why teenagers are particularly vulnerable to dangerous games, and how social media amplifies their risks.
Risk-taking is a necessary part of human development, and parents, peers, schools and the broader community play an integral role in guiding and moderating risk-taking. Children are drawn to, and often encouraged to engage in, activities with a degree of social or physical risk, like riding a bike, asking someone for a date or learning how to drive.
Those are healthy risks. They let children explore boundaries and develop risk-management skills. One of those skills is scaffolding. An example of scaffolding is an adult helping a child climb a tree by initially guiding them, then gradually stepping back as the child gains confidence and climbs independently.
Information-gathering is another skill, like asking if swallowing a spoonful of cinnamon is dangerous. A third skill is taking appropriate safety measures – such as surfing with friends rather than going by yourself, or wearing a helmet and having someone nearby when skateboarding.
The perfect storm
During adolescence, the brain is growing and developing in ways that affect maturity, particularly within the circuits responsible for decision-making and emotional regulation. At the same time, hormonal changes increase the drive for reward and social feedback.
All of these biological events are happening as teenagers deal with increasingly complex social relationships while simultaneously trying to gain greater autonomy. The desire for social validation, to impress peers or to attract a potential romantic interest, coupled with less adult supervision, increases the likelihood of participating in risky behaviors. An adolescent might participate in these antics to impress someone they have a crush on, or fit in with others.
That’s why the combination of teenagers and social media can be a perfect storm – and the ideal environment for the proliferation of these dangerous activities.
Social media shapes brain circuits
Social media platforms are driven by algorithms engineered to promote engagement. So they feed you what evokes a strong emotional reaction, and they seem to prioritize sensationalism over safety.
Because teens strongly react to emotional content, they’re more likely to view, like and share videos of these dangerous activities. The problem has become worse as young people spend more time on social media – by some estimates, about five hours a day.
This may be why mood disorders among young people have risen sharply since 2012, about the time when social media became widespread. These mood disorders, like depression and conduct issues, more than double the likelihood of playing dangerous games. It becomes a vicious cycle.
Rather than parents or real-life friends, TikTok, YouTube and other apps and websites are shaping a child’s brain circuits related to risk management. Social media is replacing what was once the community’s role in guiding risk-taking behavior.
Protecting teens while encouraging healthy risk-taking
Monitoring what teens watch on social media is extraordinarily difficult, and adults often are ill-equipped to help. But there are some things parents can do. Unexplained marks on the neck, bloodshot eyes or frequent headaches may indicate involvement in the choking game. Some social media sites, such as YouTube, are sensitive to community feedback and will take down a video that is flagged as dangerous.
As parents keep an eye out for unhealthy risks, they should encourage their children to take healthy ones, such as joining a new social group or participating in outdoor activities. These healthy risks help children learn from mistakes, build resilience and improve risk-management skills. The more they can assess and manage potential dangers, the less likely they will engage in truly unhealthy behaviors.
But many parents have increasingly adopted another route. They shield their children from the healthy challenges the real world presents to them. When that happens, children tend to underestimate more dangerous risks, and they may be more likely to try them.
This issue is systemic, involving schools, government and technology companies alike, each bearing a share of responsibility. However, the dynamic between parents and children also plays a pivotal role. Rather than issuing a unilateral “no” to risk-taking, it’s crucial for parents to engage actively in their children’s healthy risk-taking from an early age.
This helps build a foundation where trust is not assumed but earned, enabling children to feel secure in discussing their experiences and challenges in the digital world, including dangerous activities both online and offline. Such mutual engagement can support the development of a child’s healthy risk assessment skills, providing a robust basis for tackling problems together.
Steven Wolterning, Associate Professor of Educational Psychology, Texas A&M University and Paige Williams, Doctoral student in Educational Psychology, Texas A&M University
This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.
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(Family Features) Harsh winter elements like snow, ice and wind can wreak havoc on your home – if it’s not properly prepared and maintained. Make home maintenance both indoors and out a priority this winter to ensure it’s safe, warm, secure and operating efficiently.
While winterizing can be a daunting task, you don’t have to do it alone. Whether you need help installing gutter guards, sealing cracks in your concrete or ensuring your sump pump is ready for winter, the experts at Thrasher Foundation Repair provide precise repairs for every project.
They’ve seen it all through 50 years of serving more than 150,000 happy customers – from basement flooding to damaged concrete – and know how to prevent these issues before they start. Recognized with the International Torch Award for Ethics by the Better Business Bureau Midwest Plains, they set the standard for excellence in their field as a trusted industry leader in home protection.
“Winter can really take a toll on your home, but a few proactive steps now can save you headaches later,” CEO Dan Thrasher said. “At Thrasher Foundation Repair, we help protect what matters most – your home and peace of mind. We’re happy to share our pro tips to help you keep your home safe, dry and ready for whatever winter throws your way.”
It all begins with homeowners taking proactive steps to recognize small problems before they spiral out of control. Use this checklist from Thrasher’s experts to prepare your home for a warm, secure and stress-free winter season.
Clean and Maintain Gutters and Downspouts
When debris like leaves clog gutters, it causes water to overflow and freeze, leading to ice dams and roof leaks. These blockages can cause water to damage your roof, siding and foundation, meaning it’s critical to remove debris. Run water through gutters and check for proper water flow – if you notice pooling or slow drainage, there may be a blockage that needs attention. Make sure downspouts direct water away from the foundation and walkways by extending them at least 10 feet away from the home. Also be sure to inspect and tighten any loose gutter brackets and fasteners so they can withstand the weight of snow and ice.
Insulate Rim Joists
Rim joist insulation plays a big role in your home’s energy efficiency. If your insulation is more than 10 years old, consider upgrading to a more efficient material to reduce heat loss.
Protect the Basement and Foundation
Now is a good time to inspect your foundation for any cracks or damage. Bringing in the experts to address problem areas can help avoid larger issues when spring storms arrive. A working sump pump is critical for preventing basement flooding caused by snowmelt or winter storms, so it’s important to test it to ensure proper functionality. It’s also important to inspect discharge lines for potential freezing issues to avoid water backup into the basement. Consider grading soil to ensure the ground slopes away from your home, preventing water from seeping through.
Seal and Protect Concrete
Carefully inspect walkways, driveways and patios for cracking. During winter, water can seep into cracks, freeze then expand, causing long-term damage. Seal them with a penetrating sealant (rather than a topical one) for long-lasting protection from moisture, salt and other winter elements.
Optimize Humidity
Turn on your furnace’s humidifier to maintain proper indoor humidity levels and adjust your dehumidifier settings to match winter’s low humidity. This helps keep your home comfortable while preventing moisture-related issues.
Clear Debris Around the House
Along with cleaning gutters and downspouts, it’s important to clear window wells and clean up around the foundation, too. Debris in window wells can block drainage, causing water from snowmelt to pool near the foundation then seep into the basement.
Manage Snow and Ice
Leaving snow and ice on concrete surfaces can erode and weaken the material over time. Regularly shoveling snow from driveways, sidewalks and patios helps prevent ice buildup and protects the concrete from long-term damage.
Find more winter home maintenance tips and contact the pros for assistance by visiting GoThrasher.com.
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Rolling Into the Holidays: Altadena Man’s Enchanting Train Wonderland
Rob Caves’ impressive model train display in Altadena becomes a holiday destination, evoking nostalgia and joy for families and enthusiasts, fostering community connections through shared experiences.
As the holiday season unfolds, there’s one place in Altadena that’s transforming into a magical winter wonderland, drawing visitors from near and far. Nestled along Christmas Tree Lane, Rob Caves’ home has become a beloved destination for model train enthusiasts and families alike. With an expansive model train set that captures the essence of California and beyond, Rob Caves is bringing joy, nostalgia, and a touch of magic to the heart of the season.
The Journey Begins
Rob’s journey into the realm of model trains started back in 2010 when he was living in sunny San Diego. What began as a modest hobby has blossomed into a spectacular display that now stretches an impressive 60 feet by 90 feet. This remarkable train set transports visitors from San Diego to Seattle, all within the cozy confines of his home. As families peer into the miniature world he has created, they’re greeted with iconic landmarks, such as the San Clemente Pier, the remnants of Fry’s Electronics in Burbank, and even the historic Union Station in downtown LA.
“I think the track represents places we’ve all been,” Rob shares, reflecting on the memories that each twist and turn evokes. The Christmas Tree Lane Model Railroad Society, a passionate club of 50 members, assists Rob in maintaining and operating the stunning display. Each contributor brings their unique flair and enthusiasm, collectively creating a lively atmosphere that resonates with every visitor.
Bringing the Past to Life
For many, model trains are synonymous with cherished childhood memories—be it waving at the engineer when riding the train to the beach or the excitement of camping adventures. Young Logan Montori, just seven-and-a-half years old, is one of the club’s budding enthusiasts. He exclaims, “Running trains is basically my favorite thing!” His infectious energy and joy remind us that the magic of model trains knows no age.
Adding to the wonder is the evolution of technology within the model trains. Tom Selinske, a college business professor and fellow club member, highlights the incorporation of advanced technologies. “There’s microchips in these little engines that actually can do sounds, create different effects, and it’s becoming more digital,” he reveals. The blend of traditional charm and cutting-edge technology keeps both the club members and visitors in awe, ensuring that there’s always something new to explore.
Inviting the Community In
Every holiday season, Rob opens his home to the public, sharing the joy and excitement that comes with seeing the model trains in action. “It just makes our day,” Rob expresses, his eyes twinkling with pride. “Whether we see the kids run up and see the train, and you know what? Everybody is a big kid when they come here.” This welcoming spirit creates an enchanting atmosphere where community ties are strengthened through the shared wonder of the holiday season.
For many families, visiting Rob Caves’ home has become an annual tradition, with the last opportunity to visit this season ending soon. On Saturday, December 16th, from 5 p.m. to 11 p.m., the doors of this fascinating holiday attraction will close until next year, making this weekend the perfect time to create lasting memories.
Rob Caves’ model train set is more than just a hobby; it’s a heartfelt labor of love that serves as a bridge to cherished memories, nostalgia, and the magic of the season. As visitors gather and share in the joy of the trains, they not only witness a remarkable spectacle but also partake in a community celebration of creativity, innovation, and togetherness. So, why not embark on this enchanting journey? Come experience the wonder of Rob Caves’ magical train world before it’s too late—your holiday season will be all the merrier for it!
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Informal safety nets help many Americans with expenses – people at all income levels benefit from this ‘financial interdependence’
Many Americans engage in informal financial support networks, reflecting cultural traditions and economic needs, which are becoming increasingly vital amid rising living costs and economic pressures.
Jeffrey Anvari-Clark, University of North Dakota
About 1 in 5 American adults regularly provide unpaid care or financial assistance to their adult relatives or friends. And about 1 in 7 young adults between the ages of 25 and 34 live with their parents.
But the true extent of support among Americans is deeper and broader.
From parents covering the cost of unexpected car repairs to colleagues raising funds for their co-workers’ medical expenses, Americans help each other in countless ways.
As a social work scholar who researches these patterns of what I call “financial interdependence,” I often observe transactions that challenge a common American narrative that most people in this country are handling their expenses on their own.
A long-standing tradition
The practice of sharing money with your friends and loved ones has deep roots in American society. Many Native American communities have traditions of sharing food and other resources with one another.
In the 19th century, mutual aid societies formed everywhere from Philadelphia to Florida. Many of them helped free Black people weather economic hardships. These organizations provided everything from unemployment assistance to burial expenses.
Today’s informal support networks echo these historical patterns.
In particular, many immigrant communities maintain traditional practices of collectively saving and lending money. Mexican American families often participate in “tandas,” which pool their savings to achieve financial goals or meet urgent needs. Similarly, West African and Caribbean communities in the U.S. organize “susu” groups, while many Chinese American communities form “hui” associations.
Local “hometown associations” additionally often offer both financial and social support to their members – aiding immigrant communities in the U.S. and people back in their homelands.
Everyone does it
These mutual support arrangements are very widespread and operate across all income levels, though they take different forms. They can be secular or religious. The true extent of this kind of activity is generally unknown.
Lower-income families often engage in frequent, smaller exchanges. They might share grocery costs, for example, or relatives may help one another out with the payment of large, unexpected bills.
Wealthier Americans tend to give larger amounts of money to extended family members, but less often. These might include a parent’s help with a down payment on a young adult’s first house or paying a portion of the cost of a grandchild’s college education.
Some families establish formal structures such as financial trusts or 529 educational savings accounts to make these transfers easier to complete and track. The number of people using 529 accounts has been increasing steadily, as states offer matching funds and tax incentives.
The nature of this financial support often reflects economic needs and cultural values. In many East Asian American communities, for example, adult children routinely provide financial support to their parents – as a cultural expectation.
Regardless of the community involved, technology has transformed how people share money with their friends and family.
Mobile payment platforms make it easier to split costs and send quick assistance. Money-transfer apps have normalized small-scale financial sharing among friends and family.
Online and social media platforms are used to gather resources for medical expenses, funerals or emergency needs. These tools extend traditional support networks beyond geographic boundaries.
Other kinds of support
Financial assistance can extend far beyond direct monetary help.
Families and communities might purchase bulk grocery items together to save money, or live together to manage rising housing costs. Some parents create informal child care cooperatives, while others coordinate care responsibilities for aging relatives with their extended families.
Financial education often emphasizes individual savings and budgeting. Yet, many Americans practice financial interdependence by managing their finances and making decisions in collaboration with others.
Addressing challenges
To meet today’s economic challenges, Americans are finding creative solutions through shared resources.
Young adults increasingly need more help to become homeowners than what they can get from a bank. The median home price has far outpaced wage growth, making family assistance crucial for many first-time buyers.
College costs have stabilized, albeit at high levels, leading more families to pool resources for educational support. This often creates long-term financial obligations across generations.
Medical expenses remain a leading cause of financial strain, pushing families to rely on each other to pay for health-related costs.
These support systems work at many levels, including family, community, the workplace and in government.
Some employers now offer emergency loan programs and matching funds for employee hardship. Some businesses create formal peer support systems for employees facing financial challenges.
A few states are also supporting family caregivers by providing tax credits to reimburse their out-of-pocket expenses.
Recognizing the financial burden of caregiving, Michigan Gov. Gretchen Whitmer has proposed a tax credit to support dependent respite services, nursing and transportation.
Some complications
While financial interdependence provides crucial assistance, it can also create challenges.
Financial responsibilities can strain family and friendship bonds. The provision of too much financial help can create or reinforce power imbalances within relationships. Some communities may not have enough money to be able to equally and effectively assist all members.
Clear communication and healthy boundaries can help manage these tensions.
As economic pressures mount for many American families, these informal financial support networks are growing more vital. Studies show that rising costs make financial stability increasingly difficult to achieve on your own.
Jeffrey Anvari-Clark, Assistant Professor of Social Work, University of North Dakota
This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.
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